I'm disciplining myself today to not click on a trending Twitter hashtag. The hashtag is #ERLC2014 and the irony is I'm using it myself. Some of you might have muted me already. I understand. I would have muted me. I wish the mute function worked as well in the world as it works on Twitter. The Ethics & Religious Liberties Commission conference is meeting this week in a Nashville Opryland ballroom. The subject? "The Gospel, Homosexuality, and the Future of Marriage." You might understand now why I'm hesitating to click on the trending hashtag. Partially I don't want the trolls and travelers to interrupt my mojo (live blogging/tweeting the conference), but partially this subject is a heated one and I don't like conflict.
The writer of Hebrews cautioned their readers to "Pay careful attention to what they had been taught, lest they drift away." I remember this short line often because I want to be a listener, a hearer—not only to the word of God, but to the people its truths aim to flourish. It is important to not only listen to what is being said, but to remember what has been said before—Scripture, historical movements, early church writings, even recent history. We all need to be better listeners, better hearers. Not just the conservative Baptists in this room, but all Christians, including those who identify as gays and lesbians.
The causality of the the same-sex marriage movement is the past—biblical, historical, and, yes, personal. More and more we are talking past one another on both sides of the issues on the table, forgetting what men and women gave their lives to for thousands of years, forgetting what men and women are laying down today in an effort to follow the gospel, and forgetting how painful the cost is either way.
Twitter is a tool, but it can also be the mouthpiece of tyrants.
I'll be writing a few pieces over the next few days from the press table of ERLC and I'm asking the Lord to help me hear the nuance, the gaps, the places where we're not hearing or not listening—both in scripture and in life.
And I'm not clicking on that hashtag.